My Story

 

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I am a family physician, father of four, two of which belong to my previous marriage.  If I had not lived it in my own flesh, I probably would have never known that Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) even existed, and that it has the tremendously negative effects that it has on children.  What is really concerning is not only that the great majority of medical professionals do not even know about this huge problem, but that our present “Family” court system, in many cases, actually encourages this type of alienating behavior due to the financial incentives to attorneys, GALs, “professionals” and alienating parents trying to gain custody of minor children.

To make a long story short, while attending medical school in Nicaragua, my ex-wife absconded for two years with my two kids (Mario was 7 y/o and Nicole was 4 y/o at that time), with the intervention of the American Embassy, the U.S.A. State Department, Miami-Dade police investigators, and even the FBI, I was able to recover them and restore shared custody of my kids.  For about a year, my whole family and I worked very hard to reintegrate them to our lives.  I also immediately recruited the help of a licensed children’s psychologist for intensive weekly therapies, and my children adapted well to their new environment. My Son, Mario, for instance, went from failing third grade and scoring in the lowest quartile in his FCAT to becoming an A/B student, scoring in the top quartile in the FCAT, and being given the honor of student of the month (one of the proudest moments of his and my life).

On June 6, 2012, DCF came to my house with another false DCF call alleging that my whole family, my parents, my brother, my new wife and I were mistreating our children. That afternoon, I called my children and prayed with them a prayer I had taught them and had posted on my refrigerator, and which I even use to teach Sunday school children with, The Spiritual Armor of God found in Ephesians 6. To my surprise, my ex-wife that same night called and had the police show up around midnight alleging that I was scaring her and my children by telling them that an evil spirit would come and kill them all, and that she was scared that I was the evil spirit that would come and killed them (see denied Domestic Violence petition).

The accusation was so outlandishly foolish and laughable, especially in light of my ex’s history of prior false accusations, appearing to the police with self-inflicted bruises but later being caught by a security camera actually assaulting me, having absconded with my children in another country, and because my own son had denied this accusation in a legally obtained phone recording, that I thought that there was no way a Judge would even waste his/her time with it.  Unfortunately, I was completely wrong for I did not realize that I was dealing with the Miami-Dade Family Court system, and with some Judges that are flat out either incompetent or completely biased in favor of a small number of attorneys who had helped put them in power.

Then, with at least 5 different false accusations with the Department of Children and Families (DCF), around the time the kids were to finish the school year, money-hungry ill-intentioned attorneys,  Yvette B. Reyes, and Ana C. Morales (please click on their names to see my complaints and the answers from the Florida Bar), obtained illegal copies of a confidential Child Protection Team (CPT) report whose findings were later found to be completely inaccurate, and without properly notifying me to have the opportunity to have legal representation, filed a purported emergency motion to have my time-sharing suspended. (See also Suggestions To Improve DCF).

Despite the foolish accusation, that terrible day, July 20, 2012, a Judge, Mindy Glazer, violated my due process rights by conducting an emergency telephonic hearing without proper notice. The emergency hearing was based on the alleged DCF report, on the case that had not even been closed, so there was not any such report. In the unannounced telephonic hearing, I had no legal representation as direct result of this Judge trampling on the rule of law and making a mockery of the legal process. Here is some more information about her terrible performance: (www.robeprobe.comblogs.miaminewtimes.comwww.ccfj.net).

Since that time, by order of another Judge, Pedro Echarte, I only had very limited supervised visitations with my kids based solely on the allegation that somehow my praying with them would scare them. However, after DCF had actually finished its investigation and I brought the final psychological evaluation that cleared me of any wrongdoing before Judge Echarte, he refused to admit it into evidence arguing that it was conducted by DCF one day prior to him giving the order to do so.  Judge Echarte then ordered me to undergo another evaluation, but this time with the psychologist my ex’s attorneys had recommended, Vanessa Archer. He also ordered the assignment of a Guardian Ad Litem (GAL), Anastasia Garcia, whom my ex’s attorneys had also recommended.   Time went by, with the ultimate result that my son almost failed 4th grade, and his teachers were very concerned with his inappropriate behavior and very poor grades.

To make matters worse, almost a year after our forced separation, I found out that my ex’s attorneys were hiding the fact that my son had been diagnosed with Major Depression, and PTSD and was requiring SSRI medication for it.  No other traumatic event had happened since my children were alienated from me and my side of the family that July of 2012, and I only had very limited supervised visitations at that time. Before this separation, my son was an excellent student, scoring in the top quartile in the FCAT, and being given the honor of student of the month (one of the proudest moments of his and my life), but after these individuals collaborated to alienate my children, he developed these psychological conditions.  In hopes of getting some justice, I sent a complaint to the FLORIDA JUDICIAL QUALIFICATIONS COMMISSION (FJQC) about Judge Echarte, but they unbelievably found no fault with Judge Echarte’s actions.

To add insult to injury, I then came before a third Judge, Judge Scott Bernstein, whom seemed to be inherently incapable to identify with the love of a father for his children and with the need for a religious upbringing, but whom claimed to stand against bigotry by running as the first openly gay Judge married to another man,  but became a religious bigot himself, and whom by not acting in the children’s defense actually supported the opinion that somehow my religious beliefs prevented me from freely seeing my children. After basically ignoring all the evidence presented (Verified Petition for DependencyRESPONSE TO MOTION FOR CIVIL CONTEMPT-ENFORCEMENT,  Motion to vacate all ordersMemorandum in support of denial of mother’s motion for contemptFather’s response to mother’s motions for contempt), Judge Bernstein nearly forced me into bankruptcy due to legal fees and costs, forcing me to pay for my ex’s attorneys, and contrary to all common sense, demanded that I undergo a second evaluation with the same psychologist I had reported to the Health Department, Mrs. Archer, instead of accepting an independent psychologist from DCF, as I had requested.

Mrs. Archer is the same “professional” who in my opinion was negligently responsible for the killing of an innocent child not too long before my case, Nubia Barahona, please see official DCF reportTwins File Lawsuit and willful neglect lawsuit filed against DCF on behalf of Nubia’s adoptive siblingsSimilarly to the Barahona case, Mrs. Archer, instead of reporting to the Judge pertinent information, such as the fact that my son had denied what I had been accused of, went ahead and requested to stop phone communication with my children because my son was contradicting what she had written in her report. To no ones surprise, on the second evaluation, once again, Mrs. Archer ignored the evidence presented, and recommended periodic re-evaluations with her ($1,800 each) and to continue with supervised visitations, where I needed to pay a social worker to see my children. But, after careful analysis of the individuals involved, and the series of events that have transpired, I am strongly persuaded that we are dealing with a very sophisticated form of racketeering, or organized crime, where “the potential problem may be caused by the same party that offers to solve it, although that fact may be concealed, with the specific intent to engender continual patronage for this party.”

As a result, I have not seen my children since October 26, 2013, and my son’s behavior and mental state continue to deteriorate. For instance, not too long ago, my son developed involuntary twitching of his neck and shoulder as a side effect of the medications he has been forced to take to deal with his pain. When I informed the GAL, Mrs. Garcia, of this situation, and that my son’s therapist, Dr. Gregorio Brown, had recommended my soon reunification with my children and that he had even volunteered to come to our home to help with the reunification process, she actually scolded the therapist, and my ex immediately fired him. Mrs. Garcia then  In conclusion, I believe that we are dealing not only with a very serious psychological condition causing great harm to our children and families, but at the same time, with a completely dysfunctional family court system that is doing a horrible job with this problem. We need some serious work, and I would like to join forces with our community and organizations to offer my services to try to find solutions to this most important issue.

Best regards,

Mario A. Jimenez Jerez, M.D.

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This is the prayer I prayed with my kids, https://saynotopas.com/?attachment_id=53, the reason why a male judge, Scot Bernstein, who is married to another male judge, David Young, has kept me away from my children. Talk about bigotry. I love gays and lesbians, but this judge is a disgrace to their cause. As a matter of fact, I have very close family members and friends whom I love and respect beyond words, but this judge does not represent them at all. He is up for re-election in 2016, I got a feeling that 2016 will be his last year wearing a black rope. See:  http://miamiherald.typepad.com/ gaysouthflorida/2007/09/judge-david-you.html. “When I despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love have always won. There have been tyrants and murderers, and for a time, they can seem invincible, but in the end, they always fall. Think of it--always.” ― Mahatma Gandhi. Solution: www.NewJudge.com

This is the prayer I prayed with my kids, https://saynotopas.com/?attachment_id=53, the reason why a male judge, Scot Bernstein, who is married to another male judge, David Young, has kept me away from my children. Talk about bigotry. I love gays and lesbians, but this judge is a disgrace to their cause. As a matter of fact, I have very close family members and friends whom I love and respect beyond words, but this judge does not represent them at all. He is up for re-election in 2016, I got a feeling that 2016 will be his last year wearing a black rope. See:
http://miamiherald.typepad.com/
gaysouthflorida/2007/09/judge-david-you.html.
“When I despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love have always won. There have been tyrants and murderers, and for a time, they can seem invincible, but in the end, they always fall. Think of it–always.” ― Mahatma Gandhi.
Solution: www.NewJudge.com

  10 Responses to “My Story”

  1. Dear Dr. Jerez,
    I am so sorry for the situation that your evil ex-wife has bestowed upon you. I too, know of many injustices that the legal system has failed our children. I am a self proclaimed child advocate, I get involved with as many parents as I can, when Child Protective Services have put an innocent child’s life at risk. Many , many times children are returned to the parent that endangered them. I cannot comprehend or even begin to understand why any incident involving the risk of children is not validated. It is the crooked judges and social workers that are failing our children, who have their blood on their hands. They will receive their “just” reward when they try to meet Our Heavenly Father. It is He who will be the judge of them, and they will burn in hell for eternity because or their wrongdoing . I will pray for you, that The Lord will send to you a Christian judge and return your children into your arms, where they have belonged during this entire unjust ordeal. JUSTICE IN THE NAME OF JESUS !!!!!

  2. Thankfully my own custody dispute never elevated to the pernicious degree yours has become. Most importantly, I’m sorry. My heart broke as I read your story. I’m sharing a prayer that I said, with all earnest, every night for a brief but agonizing 6 months of my life. I hope it offers you some comfort in times of anxiousness and despair. I pray the truth is revealed and you and Divine justice covers you and your children in safety and protection from these vile tyrants.

    Prayer for Children

    Dear God,

    My child is so precious to me.

    Please give me the words

    You would have me speak

    For my child’s welfare.

    Cleanse my mind of worry.

    Fill my mind, instead, with the knowledge

    Of how much You love my baby

    And how strong Your power is to protect.

    Help me hold this vision:

    You speak to my child and guide her in Right Action—

    As she explores life, she hears Your Voice clearly—

    She listens to Your whispered warnings—

    She follows Your guidance—

    And she is safe in Your love.

    And if she is so full of enthusiasm

    —or confusion—

    that she takes a wrong step,

    You hold out Your arms, dear Lord, and catch her.

    You whisper and paths change.

    Danger turns away.

    And my child, hearing You, turns toward safety.

    For nothing is stronger than You.

    No evil can circumvent Your Knowing.

    No voice can speak louder.

    No force can move mountains as You can.

    Nothing can penetrate Your Net of Protection around my child

    As You now move Heaven and Earth to protect her.

    You are The Protector of all innocents, no matter their age.

    And I decree—and You know—that my child is an innocent.

    So I rest easy, knowing I have turned over the care of my child

    To Your Infinite Wisdom

    And that You never fail me.

    I affirm my child is safe in Your Arms, now and forever.

    Thank You for teaching her

    —through me and through others—

    about her inner beauty, her Divinity and her worth.

    Thank You for guiding me in teaching her how to be safe

    Without making her afraid.

    Thank You for helping us both stay so connected to You

    That we cannot help but hear the “inner voice” that keeps us safe.

    Thank You for teaching my child such great self love and respect

    That she takes tender care of herself always.

    Thank You for the happy days ahead of us.

    For it is a new millennium in which Your power and wisdom reigns.

    As Jesus said: “Ask and ye shall receive;”

    So do I speak The Word which You infuse with absolute power:

    My child is safe.

    Thank You, God.
    And so it is.
    Amen.

  3. Hello there, I am father of an abducted child from US to Mexico. in spite of minimal chance to see my son in the haven of abductors, I have been experiencing this unbearable pain for last 5 years. I came to a kind of conclusion, that this illness, Parental alienation, unfortunately has no cure as long as we are dealing with evils psychopaths and add to it the family court system. I am almost to a point, to give up seeing my son, because, he is first in line to be tortured and suffer from this situation and it exacerbate when The criminal abductor is notified that I want to see my son . The criminal has the gun in her hand and my hands are tied.

  4. Just for the record… SSRI and SNRI drugs have basically been BANNED for use on children since 2004 by the FDA, Health Canada and Britain.

  5. There are no safe drugs. Children need their families, not foster and shelter care under drugs to help them cope…There is far more to the story than “bad social workers and bad judges”, but that is a great part of it…If Social Security funds, IV-D were cut off to the states by the billions that fund this scam, this business would dry up. It is Kids for Cash.